a few facts:
1. the older you get, the less you want to celebrate your birthday because you simply do not want to be reminded of your age
2. there is a delicate balance between expectation and disappointment
3. the very first "happy birthday" is usually greeted by an unexpected someone
4. you care because it is your birthday; you do not mind because she is your best friend
5. i would highly prefer Hal than Dora